Yesterday, my 7 year old grandson had a dilemma: Mom wanted him to do his chores, He did not want to. Being gifted at drawing people out with kindness, Mother asked why? Well, his name means “Happiness and Joy”, and he is not happy doing chores so shouldn’t have to. As a parent, you know…Read More Why Should I do Chores if they don’t make me Happy?
I would like to think I’m a culinary genius whose efforts are not appreciated. When I was a single dad raising 3 kids, they always ate what I put in front of them. What I didn’t realize, was that my taste bud were much more highly evolved than any one elses…or so I thought. Thirty…Read More Maybe I Should use a Recipe
You never get used to pain. Day in and day out, movement is a labor that draws from your very core. Sometimes I wonder what is to be learned from it. I loathe to complain, there are others who have much worse and bear it with stoic resolve. Today, I am weak. How do you…Read More Can any good come from pain?
Humanity has for millennia given the Divine credit for permitting all the woes of life. Paradoxically, when good things happen, the majority of us chalk it up to: “Good luck”, “Skill”, or even one’s own “Intelligence”. I find it ironic that we only accept credit, generally speaking, when good things happen, and deny responsibility for…Read More Why do we blame God for every bad thing?
Growing up, and I’m sure you have heard it too, when the crap hits the fan there was always someone would say: “What doesn’t kill us, only makes us stronger.” I’m here to let you know…that guy/gal is either speaking metaphorically or is a complete masochist. The metaphor would be in reference to our “Spirit”…Read More What Doesn’t Kill Us…
The 1960’s to mid 70’s can arguably be labeled the last decades the western diet was healthy. By the mid 70’s, western governments and scientists decided they could improve the human condition globally by altering and improving the characteristics of foods. What they could not foresee, was the impact genetically modified foods would have on…Read More What I Wish They Taught in School
I would like to think my tolerance is limitless. Truth be told, it isn’t. I have lived as a monk for 9 years. My mission, to understand the whats and whys of life challenges. Included is to understand my limits, and how to improve upon them. I believe our personalities are similar to balloons…once we…Read More When is Enough, Enough?
Has China broken with tradition? For most of my life I have admired the rich, ancient culture and history of China. Wisdom from teachers such as Sun Tzu, Lao Tzu, Confucius and Mencius to name a few, have influenced the world over for millenia. Such ideals and insights have shaped mans thinking as to not…Read More China’s Moral Authority?
You ever wonder what it would be like to live 1000 years? I do. There are some draw backs to be sure, but would they be enough to change my mind? I would out-live everyone I love. I would need to learn new technologies as they develop. I would likely need to learn new languages…Read More To Live a Thousand Years
Not all women realize they are pregnant for the first few months. I know that’s hard to believe, but it’s true. After my older sister was born, my mother did not experience her “monthly cycle”. Back in those days that sort of information was personal and frankly, it wasn’t something talked about. With the amount…Read More Why Nutrition is so Important During Pregnancy